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    The brutalization of beauty

    Yesterday I wrote about beauty, and how we humans have evolved to seek it, appreciate it, understand it, create it. Today I am confronted by the dark dark side of that human coin, a slap-in-the-face reminder of how we humans are also capable of utterly destroying beauty, and innocence. In an age when violence, against "other" humans, against nature, and most particularly against women, is eroticized and fetishized, here stands Sunitha Krishnan: simple, beautiful, strong survivor of horrendous sexual violence, trying to shake us out of our jaded apathy, asking us not for empty sympathy or charity, but respect and human dignity. Powerful:

    via ted.com

    I am speechless. And as a man, I struggle not to seek some place to hide my face from such ghastly evidence of what my gender has wrought.

    My deepest utmost respect to Sunitha Krishnan and to those on whose behalf she speaks. How can we complain about our lots in life, or exalt the progress made by humanity, when such brutalities as she speaks of are still allowed to flourish, and the victims of this global trade we hush up, have salt rubbed into their raw wounds by a criminally indifferent society? Here's a real life victim of sexual violence fighting for the human dignity and rights of other victims of sexual violence and slavery. Move over Lisbeth Salander. If only you could emerge from the pages of the books and mete justice on these perpetrators, and the silent majority who turns a blind eye.

    [Hat-tip to my sister Vaijayanta who works with other victims of the HIV epidemic and other social injustices in India]

    Tags » India human rights video violence
    • 19 November 2010
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    over 1 year ago KAMiNi responded:
    Madhu - i have shared this on my wall. For some reason i couldn't comment on your FB post.

    My experiences have also all been negative when it comes to how a 'victim' is treated. Though i refused to feel like one.

    KAMiNi

    over 1 year ago Madhusudan Katti responded:
    Madhusudan Katti
    Hi Kamini,

    I am sorry, and ashamed on behalf of society, at how we treat victims, at how (it seems, if I'm reading you correctly) you were treated. Completely baffling that even people who might generally be compassionate towards victims of other kinds of misfortune and violence can have a very different reaction towards victims of sexual violence. And because of such reactions, we don't realize the extent of sexual violence in society and how many of the people we know in our daily lives may be silent victims at some level (even if not as horrendous as the ones Sunithi Krishnan depicts).

    Not sure why you weren't able to comment on my FB post - some technical glitch perhaps?

    Madhu

    over 1 year ago KAMiNi responded:
    The comparatively less horrific incident took place at WII. 'A' and i were returning from town (about 8pm) and we got mugged at knife point. Lost a lot of stuff and i got a cut on my chin. Some people helped us...and finally when we did get back to the hostel,' J' (you know him - not going to take names here) yelled at us for being out so late (!?) and for going out without one of the guys to accompany us. HAH!

    And that sort of stuff is commonplace - it doesn't have to be as horrific as the things that happened to Sunitha and the people she is talking about. It is how circumscribed the lives of most women become because of this. It is all the little things - how most women's steps hasten when they see the road is deserted, how their pulse quickens when they hear footsteps hurrying behind them, it is how they often plan their lives around the convenience of men to be around them...baah - it's a depressing and endless issue.

    over 1 year ago KAMiNi responded:
    I'd also like to share the poem on 'being pretty' that you'd posted sometime back. LOVED IT. Want to play it to my daughter in a few years from now! And hopefully for a lot of women out there today.
    over 1 year ago Madhusudan Katti responded:
    Madhusudan Katti
    Yikes. I hadn't heard about that incident, but can well imagine the scenario and the reactions. It used to be that this circumscription you describe was more severe in northern India than in the south. Although the horror of "eve-teasing" could be bad down south as well, I know Kaberi felt safer traveling alone on buses and in towns like Tirunelveli even in the evenings. Is that still the case? It is hard to gauge how things are now in India from afar, but it does seem like things may be worse in some ways, even (especially?) with cheerleaders at cricket games and so on becoming commonplace.

    As a father to two daughters (and advisor to more female than male graduate students doing field work in my lab), I hate the thought of them having to live with the wariness of prey alert to predators at all times in public places - but how can I tell them not cultivate that wariness too? These constraints are universal, across all cultures and societies in the dominant patriarchies, and I really despair over what might turn that around. Depressing and endless is right...

    over 1 year ago Madhusudan Katti responded:
    Madhusudan Katti
    Oh yes, "Pretty" is a terrific poem, read fantastically in that video. One reason I put it on my blog was so I could find it later to show to my daughters too. Share away!

    over 1 year ago sai sharadha responded:
    no one needs compassion from a society consisting of people who cant raise voice against evil...who cant raise voice for a good cause...no one needs empathy from a society with people who re cowards...who come out of such a soceity and form a soceity where all the victims are accepted and respected as any other human and believing that all girl children need self defense and courage..and owe to break the culture of silence even if its to turn someone close them,it is them we need...thus they achieve the purpose of human birth...acting in coherence with the 6th sense how it is actually meant to be used ...my wishes and prayers to sunitha krishnan on her journey through this beautiful world filled with thorns of many evils that has cropped up in human minds...i wish ti offer my hand of support to act effieciently to the maximum extent i can.
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